While the world wants to tell you structure doesn’t matter in terms of who you are in relation to the Creator and your family, the bible suggests otherwise.
And I don’t know about you, but in a sea of self-created truths and mountains of lies, I personally want my life to be built on a solid foundation of REAL TRUTH which is found in the infallible Word of Yahweh.
Only in the last few years have I just started to scratch the surface on the importance of structure in my relationships.
Simply put, Yahweh is Our Heavenly Father, His son Yahshua our Messiah is second in rank and gives us access to His Father and is the head of the Man/Husband in a marital relationship and the Woman/Wife serves under the Man/Husband who is head over her. Any children the couple may have would then be next in order under their parents guidance and authority.
This divine structure may sound odd if you’ve never heard of it before and are a bit estranged to the nature and will of Yahweh the Father, but as you explore His Word and learn about his intention and heart for the humans He has created you will begin to understand the beauty and importance of this order.
Only in the proper biblical structure can we operate in our roles that Yahweh designed for us with accuracy and success.
As the Woman/Wife in my earthly relational structure, I am honored to have been brilliantly designed by Yahweh to be the “helpmeet” of my husband — created in such a way to fill in all the gaps in my husband’s walk to serve Yah and others in this life.
It is not drudgery or a matter of some kind of slavery, but instead an intentional choice to function in a role that is equally as important as the man’s but different in its nature and execution.
The more I learn to willfully submit to the heavenly structure Yahweh has laid out for us to follow, the more I am blessed and grateful to be who He created me to be and I increasingly get to witness the fruit of those endeavors come to harvest.